I have been a married
woman for over 23 years now, and it has been quite a wild roller coaster ride.
There have been so many difficulties over the years. I wish I would
have had a mentor when I was a young bride to come along beside me and help me
to see what was needed to be a good wife. I thought a good wife cooked,
cleaned, and took care of her man, but there is so much more to it than
that.
The best
thing we can do for our spouses is to pray for them each day. Even before
we say "I do", we should be praying for our mate.
As a
wife, I want my husband to feel that I am his best friend and that I am here to
encourage him in this journey. God has called him to lead our family and
to provide for our needs. That is why it is so important for me to pray
for him constantly throughout the day. Satan seeks to destroy our
marriages and families in any way he can, and we need to combat his strategies
with prayer.
In
Proverbs 31 verses 11 and 12 it says The heart of
her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does
him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. Our husbands
should be able to count on us to be there for them. We should lift them up.
We should be their helpers. We should not speak unkindly of our
husbands with anyone. If we gossip and backbite our husbands it will just
open a door for the devil to seek and destroy our marriages.
There
are many times throughout our days we can stop and pray for our spouses.
As soon as we wake up and see them lying next to us, we can pray.
Pray that God will protect them. Pray that God will use them in a
mighty way as they go about their day. Ask God to strengthen your
marriage. Pray that He will help guard your hearts and minds from the evils
that may attack during the day. Surrender your marriage to God so He can use it
for His glory. As the day goes on, you can stop and pray each time you think
about your spouse. These prayers do not need to be long and drawn out.
Just ask the Lord to guide, protect, and strengthen your spouse as the day
carries on.
In the evenings, we need to pray with our partners.
Open your hearts and just be honest in praying for your families and
marriages. Give God full control of them. Allow Him to do a good work in
the lives of you and your children. Right before going to sleep, stop, and pray
one more time for the person lying next to you. Pray for them to sleep well and
to wake up feeling refreshed and ready to serve God in everything they do and
say.
It is important to allow your children to see you praying with and for your spouse. I had no idea how important praying for my husband was, so I want my children to realize this before they get married.
Here are a couple of prayers that can help get you started as you begin
praying for your spouse daily.
I love this! I was told to pray for my husband too even if I didnt think I was going to get married. And now I pray with him.This is beautiful!
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